Cricket series & Bonhomie
I had to call up someone over phone on business today and as soon as I started talking, the guy at the other end asked, “Did you follow the India-Pakistan match today?? I was elated to find a stranger talking about cricket, which I thought would happen only in India.
I replied that I did follow and India won the match. The guy replied “Hope you are happy with India winning the match. I assume that you are an Indian”. I confirmed that & thanked him for his courtesy. I was in for a bit of surprise when he said, “I am a Pakistani. I am not as happy as you are for obvious reasons, more so because I hail from Rawalpindi but it was a great show by your guys and the better team won at the end of the day”. He went on showering praises on the performance of Indian team and also said they learnt better crowd behaviour when Pakistan toured India about 5 years back while I complimented his countrymen’s hospitality towards the team and the Indian fans.
It was a simple, insignificant conversation between 2 ordinary individuals, but I wonder how the peace initiatives & cricket have changed the perceptions among the common people. I was sceptical and I still am about anything tangible happening in the ‘region’ that would change the lives of people in J&K. Yet, my perception about the common men & women of Pakistan has undergone a sea change in the recent times, particularly after the cricket series. Now, I tend to think that they are as innocent as any other; like Indians they too have been brought up with the idea that the neighbouring country is evil. I know that these emotions, this bonhomie is on a fragile state. God forbid – a single untoward incident would reverse these opinions causing high rhetoric spewing venom at each other.
Yet, how good it feels to be spoken of nicely by a Pakistani, whom we considered archrivals not so long ago. Is this what the government (of India) calls a ‘feel-good factor’?